Set them for yourself, no one else can do that for you. Are you happy with what you have now? Is it what you want your life to be like in the future? Is this the pattern you want to continue?
Reality can hit you like oncoming traffic, one moment you can think everything is as it should be, til you realize that you have dealing with things as they happen. Strive for what you want now because later on you won’t be able to. Don’t let there be anything setting you back from accomplishing what you want and or doing what makes you happy. This life is yours, and yours only. If you don’t like the path your on, then change it, change the people, the job, the life. You are the only one that has the ability to change your own life. Work hard for what you want!